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gentle-dominant:

You can touch all the right spots.
You can say all the right words.
But if she doesn’t believe you.
If she doesn’t know you mean it…
She won’t feel a thing.

gentle-dominant:

It’s no secret what a Dominant expects of a submissive. Obedience, service, pleasure…those are all givens in the mind of anyone familiar with D/s. But what really makes a “good” submissive? To my mind, what makes a good submissive has very little to do with what her Dominant expects. Rather, it…

gentle-dominant:

the-quiet-dominant:

The hardest thing about a long distance relationship? 

Those times when words don’t heal like they should. When you can’t find the way to express the understanding, and reflect the love you have. 

Those times when what you both need is to lie in silence. Cradled in the warmth of each other’s body.  Feeling their nurturing skin on yours. 

Feeling their heartbeat against you. Beating in unison with yours. Bodies connecting in a way that words can never achieve. 

The healing poetry of skin against skin. 

~QD

God damn right, QD.

gentle-dominant:

the-quiet-dominant:

The hardest thing about a long distance relationship?

Those times when words don’t heal like they should. When you can’t find the way to express the understanding, and reflect the love you have.

Those times when what you both need is to lie in silence. Cradled in the warmth of each other’s body. Feeling their nurturing skin on yours.

Feeling their heartbeat against you. Beating in unison with yours. Bodies connecting in a way that words can never achieve.

The healing poetry of skin against skin.

~QD

God damn right, QD.

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gentle-dominant:

This is the third part of a series on exploring the D/s dynamic. But before I begin, some things need to be clarified:

What this is not: This is not a guide on how to become a Dominant or submissive. No such thing exists. People are born who they are. Some things are learned, some things are…

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jerseydaddyandlittleprincess:

daddymasterdom:

1. Please touch us

Cuddle us, spoon us, grab the small of our backs. Kiss our foreheads and make us feel small. We crave your hands all over us. We love them no matter where they happen to land—be that on our asses or up our skirts.
Just. Touch. Us. It reminds us that we’re yours.

2. Take pride in us

Relish in the fact that we’re yours—that we belong to you and no one else. Smile when we enter the room because you know we’re walking toward you. It lets us know you care. It makes us want to be better for you.

3. Let us cry

When we are sad or angry, or pissed the hell off. When we drink too much…especially when we drink too much, let us cry our eyes out. Let us be messes, with mascara running down our cheeks and pints of ice cream in our hands. Let us be okay with not being okay once in a while. This one requires no action from you, just that you be okay with it when it happens.

4. Forgive

Despite how hard we try, we will make mistakes. We will fuck things up, say things wrong, do things crazy, and when that happens we need you to forgive us. We’re not talking immediate forgiveness, or that a price won’t often be paid for it, but forgiveness that comes eventually. We need to know that the slate has been wiped clean, all trespasses have been forgiven…and when it happens, don’t forget to let us know. See number 5.

5. Communicate… often!

We need this.. If we don’t discuss something, it will fester in our brains forever, eventually driving us crazy. A three minute conversation could ease hours of worry for us once an uneasy feeling sets in. If that can be prevented with a few sentences, please take the time to speak them. Honestly, like two seconds of your time could stop our heads from exploding….and you don’t want to clean up that mess, do you?

6. We want you to make us feel pretty

Not that you don’t make us feel super sexy pretty darn often, but once in a while, it’s good to actually hear. Tell us our ass looks great in our yoga pants, that our hair looks especially shiny today. Tell us you like our new boots. Notice something small and compliment us about it, and our hearts will swell for days. Compliments let us know what it’s like to look through your eyes. Those are glimpses of the world we don’t often get to see.

7. It’s the little things

Some of these are sounding cliche, but are just so fucking true. Sure, your big gestures of grandeur are admired, but it is often the small things that get our cheeks turning red. Leave a note on the mirror in the morning telling us to have a great day. Sit next to us during a movie you have no desire to see. Take the dog out in the morning so we can sleep in for an extra 10 minutes, remember what ice cream we prefer to eat when we cry. If you do these things, we’re yours for life.

8. Remember things

Speaking of little things, try to remember them. Things like how we take our coffee and the name of that bitchy girl who sits next to us at work. Remember anything. Three weeks from now, bust out some silly story we told you over dinner one evening in great detail. Remember something we’d never expect you to store into your internal drive. Remember our first concert together, and our best friend from kindergarten’s name. The more obscure the better.

9. Deal with us

When we’re singing in the car. When we drink too much wine. When we completely melt down. Deal with our pasts, and when we don’t feel pretty. Deal with our stretch marks and insecurities, our early bedtimes and exhaustion. Deal with our mood, and how we load the dishwasher the wrong way. These things silently tell us that you’ll be by our sides regardless of how nerdy, silly or utterly hopeless we can get.

Finally, the most important thing we need from you that we’ll never say out loud:

10. Be the most stable thing in our lives

Be stronger than us. Be the one person in our world that won’t turn on us or walk away. When life becomes scary and confusing, and we just need something solid to hold onto, please be our anchor. It’s because of you that our awful days are easier to get through. Don’t be perfect. Just be there. It’s the only real requirement on this list.

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This is definitely worth re-blogging. Every Daddy Dom should know this and act accordingly. A submissive such a rare and beautiful treasure not to appreciate. I know my princess mydaddysdirtylittleprincess is for sure (: 

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